Hi, I’m Robert Estrin. Welcome to LivingPianos.com. We’ve all been there. You’ve spent countless hours working on a piece of music, perfecting every detail. You’re excited to share it with others, but when it’s time to perform, you look out and see people fidgeting. Maybe they’re even on their phones. It’s a frustrating experience, and you might start thinking that the answer is to play louder—after all, that should grab their attention, right?
Why Playing Louder Isn’t the Answer
Have you ever been in a conversation with someone who just isn’t really listening? You raise your voice, trying to get their attention, but what happens? They shut down. The louder you get, the less they’re engaged. Music works the same way.
Imagine, instead, that you start speaking more gently and slowly. All of a sudden, the other person’s curiosity is piqued. They want to know what you’re going to say next. Music, too, has a similar effect when you use soft moments to pull your listeners in.
The Power of Quietness in Music
Let me show you what I mean. Think of a piece like the middle section of the B-flat minor Nocturne. When played softly, the contrast of those delicate moments really draws the listener in. You’re waiting for what happens next, and it keeps you engaged. The surprise comes when the volume shifts, and you’re left wanting more.
The Secret to Capturing Attention
The key here is to embrace the softer moments in your playing. It’s in these moments that you can truly express yourself, and it’s through quiet playing that you can communicate with depth. When you play gently, it creates a sense of intimacy and draws people closer to you. It’s the same principle as when someone whispers to you—you lean in because you’re curious and interested in what they have to say.
When someone shouts, however, it has the opposite effect. It’s jarring and off-putting. The same principle applies to music. If you want people to listen, use the quiet moments to captivate them.
A Lesson in Life and Music
This isn’t just a lesson for your music; it’s a lesson for life as well. When you’re trying to communicate something important, speaking softly can make all the difference. People are much more likely to listen if you speak gently and thoughtfully rather than raising your voice.
Take advantage of these soft moments in your music to connect with your audience. It’s where your true expression lies, and it’s the most effective way to keep them coming back for more.
That’s the lesson for today. Thanks for tuning in! I’m Robert Estrin at LivingPianos.com. If you want to take your playing to the next level, consider setting up a free consultation for the Living Piano Mastermind Club.