What Is the Secret of Music?

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Hi, I’m Robert Estrin. Welcome to LivingPianos.com. How many of you clicked on this wondering, “What could possibly be the secret of music?” Well, the answer is unbelievably simple. Once you hear it, you’ll realize it’s something you already know deep down: the secret of music is listening. Not just hearing, but truly listening. This applies to everyone involved in music, whether you’re a performer, a composer, a producer, or just an audience member.

The Importance of Active Listening

You might be thinking, “How does listening make a difference?” Let’s consider an example. Have you ever attended a concert where the pianist was technically brilliant—perhaps someone who’s won competitions and can play some of the most difficult pieces in the repertoire? Yet, despite all that, you find yourself zoning out, struggling to focus. You wonder, “What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I concentrate on this amazing performance?”

Here’s the thing: It’s not you. The performer may be playing all the right notes, but if they aren’t actively listening, they’re not creating the experience for you as an audience member. A performer can go through the motions, their fingers knowing exactly where to go, but if they’re not tuned into the music, neither will the audience be. It’s all about listening—not just for the performer, but for the audience, too.

Listening in Different Roles

The same principle applies to other areas of music. Take someone who’s recording music, for instance. A sound engineer might know exactly how to place microphones to get a great sound. They might even mechanically do it the same way every time. But if they’re not actively listening, the sound might not come out the way they expect. They may be missing important factors like the acoustics of the room or the weather (yes, even the humidity can affect the sound!). It’s crucial to listen closely each and every time.

Fresh Ears, Every Time

Whether you’re a performer, a producer, an engineer, or an audience member, the key to creating and experiencing great music is fresh ears. As a performer, when you sit down to play a piece you’ve practiced a million times, really listen. It can be surprising how much you may have missed before. You’ve probably had the experience of playing a piece in front of an audience or even just for friends, and suddenly it feels different—better, maybe even more exciting. That’s because you’re listening more intently, and in that moment, you’re hearing it with fresh ears.

This is why it’s so important to focus on listening during your practice. If you do, you’ll carry that same level of attention into your performances. When you listen actively, you’re able to create something that’s engaging and compelling to everyone within earshot. This is the secret to music at any level.

So, how many of you have already discovered this secret in your own playing? I’d love to hear about it! Leave your comments at LivingPianos.com and on YouTube!

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